The mood will strike, and I begin. Or, maybe I’m not super in the mood but I have a little time to kill or just feel like it, and within a few minutes of starting or reading something, I’m on my way. I’m very aware of what I like and what works for me, and am pretty um, talented, at this, so I can take 1 minute if I just want to scratch the itch, or an hour if I want to really explore a fantasy (either just with my imagination, or reading something, or visual material).
Also, +1 to the pillow rec below. Seems a little strange, but this is actually very common among women. Girls often start doing this in childhood by accident, without realizing what they’re doing, and it carries over. I’ll do this, or use my fingers. I’ve never really used toys, but that’s just my personal preference.
Sometimes visual material, sometimes written. Written is fun because it leaves a bit more to the imagination and you can fill in the gaps with what works for you. Plus, its easier to find more variety in written material. Lots of mainstream visual material is geared towards a narrow idea of what cis het men want, and it’s just… not that great.
Tumblr recently “banned” pr0n, but it’s not all gone. The cool thing about Tumblr is that there was an endless amount of creative non-mainstream stuff, and because blogs could have a theme or focus, and would link to one another, you could really explore and find stuff that pushes your buttons exactly. It’s harder now that it’s been “banned”. I wish I had a recommendation for a replacement site.
I’m lucky that I’ve got a fairly open friend group and we discuss this stuff a lot. Just have fun exploring your body and what you can do for yourself. It sounds like you’ve got a good sense of your own garden plot, so you just have to figure out how exactly you like to till your own soil.
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